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The Curse of the Drunken Text!!!

Oooohhhh one of my favorite topics.... if there was a Olympic Sport in Drunken Texting, I would win hands down!!! Let's just say alcohol combined with a mobile phone is a very BAD combination.

We all know when you have a couple of beverages, you are somehow overwhelmed by this amazing power of confidence. You can say and so whatever you want with very little regard how it may effect you in the morning. You could text that cute boy or girl that you like and propose a date or perhaps a booty call, you could text your best mate and tell them what an a*hole they have been or in most cases you could text your ex and either start world war three or you could want that reunion that would never happen until hell freezes over!!!

Oh the joys of drunk texting!!!

I had a case this week - remember my last post about the guy I ditched because he just wasn't for me??? Well I got drunk and decided all the sudden he was the one for me... oops!!! I was out on a date at the time (my bad) and I drank like a fish to calm the nerves. Don't get me wrong... this guy I was on a date with was great, but I guess I didn't have the same 'wow' factor that I did with the ex. So not only did I text my ex once that I missed his company, but twice and even left a message on his Facebook. WTF? What was I thinking???

I woke up the next morning wondering what the hell had I done... I probably now had encouaged him and he's going to think I want him back. Maybe I did or maybe I honestly did just miss his company. So I had to do the awkward text to apologise and I just said the alcohol was talking... phew!!! Not sure if he believes me though!

So do I still like him??? Hmm... I'll tell you next post! I might have made up my mind by then!

But tell me... are you in this same Olympic sport of Drunk Texting as me? Spill you guts peeps!

Til Next Time,

D.G. X

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October 17th 2008 @ 21:17

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The Bitch is Back

Remember the song 'Breaking Up Is Hard to Do'? Well I think those kids knew what they were talking about. Even if you're the one who is doing the dumping, it is still bloody hard. Last week I felt like a right royal cow when I told one of the most perfect guys in the world that he wasn't so perfect for me... let's go back to the start!!!

A couple of months ago, I returned from a very relaxing holiday in Thailand. I was in Sydney for a joint Xmas party with my girlfriend. At the party, I met a guy and I had one of those moments which I rarely have. I did the 'whoa, he is so hot' thing in my head when I shook hands with him. Little did I know, this guy was friends with all my Sydney friends, but for some reason we had just never met. So we started flirting and we had a party pash which was cool. I stayed at his house that night but nothing happened - we just talked and spent the day together. At that moment, I don't know whether it was the alcohol, stil having the holiday vibe or the fact this guy was like no other guy I had met, but I knew I would be with him.

The only problem, I lived in Melb. Who cares right? Well we didn't! We thought we'd give it a go and travel so we could get to know each other. Just for the record, we were never boyfriend/girlfriend... just friends.

Long distance was a little hard, but we had such great emails, phone calls, texts and I was really falling for this guy. The thing was I really didn't know him. When I saw him it was like the first few dates, and I was still getting to know him. As this little adventure progressed, I realised that perhaps I didn't like him. There were things that annoyed me, our lifetsyles were very different and he was very naieve about the world. We kept traveling and trying but in the end I had to make the call.

It was one of the hardest things I have had to do - break the heart of a guy who was totlaly smittened with me. But how could we keep plugging away at something that would never work? I had to be honest and do both of us a favor! Still though, it made me feel like crap!

I don't know if we will ever be great mates but I guess time will tell... all I know at the moment is breaking up (even if you're not in a relationship) is bloody hard to do!!!

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October 3rd 2008 @ 21:58

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