The Attraction of Bad Boys
Many of my friends, both male and female always ask me what is women's attraction to bad boys! Think Colin Farrell, Vin Diesel, all the lads that play the bad guy in movies!
I have often complained to my girlfriend's that I always go for a bad boy and get my heart broken! And I am not the only one. There seems to be women all over the world who immediately are attracted to the 'player,' the 'cheater', the boy who is TROUBLE!!
But why? Why do we let the nice boy finish last and go for the man who is undoubtedly going to crush us?
Possibly, women like this notion of TROUBLE! Perhaps we have always toed the line and behaved and we're needing someone to show us some excitement and live on the edge.
In most cases those, these men show lots of women excitement and get us in trouble too. Look at Pete Doughety and Kate Moss. She fell in love with his bad boy ways and ultimately had a fall from grace with the showbiz world.
Maybe women like to think they see the good in these bad boys but they are too blind by love that they are in denial of their troublesome ways? Think about the time when all your friends thought they're wasn't something quite right about the person you were dating and think of their lack of surprise when you told them you found your partner cheating! Your friends are the best judges of character and if you tend to get blinded by love, listen to them! They know you the best!
I think there's a bit of trouble in all of us - we like to misbehave at times and there's nothing wrong with that. But when it comes to love - think about what you really want. Do you want to be cheated on, be played, be heart broken?
Maybe it's time to give the nice guys a go?
RIDDLE ME THIS:
Why do you think women are attracted to bad boys?
I have often complained to my girlfriend's that I always go for a bad boy and get my heart broken! And I am not the only one. There seems to be women all over the world who immediately are attracted to the 'player,' the 'cheater', the boy who is TROUBLE!!
But why? Why do we let the nice boy finish last and go for the man who is undoubtedly going to crush us?
Possibly, women like this notion of TROUBLE! Perhaps we have always toed the line and behaved and we're needing someone to show us some excitement and live on the edge.
In most cases those, these men show lots of women excitement and get us in trouble too. Look at Pete Doughety and Kate Moss. She fell in love with his bad boy ways and ultimately had a fall from grace with the showbiz world.
Maybe women like to think they see the good in these bad boys but they are too blind by love that they are in denial of their troublesome ways? Think about the time when all your friends thought they're wasn't something quite right about the person you were dating and think of their lack of surprise when you told them you found your partner cheating! Your friends are the best judges of character and if you tend to get blinded by love, listen to them! They know you the best!
I think there's a bit of trouble in all of us - we like to misbehave at times and there's nothing wrong with that. But when it comes to love - think about what you really want. Do you want to be cheated on, be played, be heart broken?
Maybe it's time to give the nice guys a go?
RIDDLE ME THIS:
Why do you think women are attracted to bad boys?
