The Girl Pash
THE GIRL PASH
I've watched a bit of porn in my time - however not by choice (sorry lads). It never failed to amaze me that at every uni party, there was always one person who would bring along their porn collection.
When watching it - I never knew whether to be disgusted, get slightly aroused or laugh how comical it was! But what really intrigued me was guy's reactions to two girls getting it on!
I had this conversation with a male friend Brad a while back. He was the straightest bloke ever, dedicated to his girlfriend and would never think of having a threesome. He did admit however, that the thought of two girls kissing got him very hot and bothered!!!
Why then? Why is it that two girl's playing a bit of tonsil hockey is so arousing?
He thinks for blokes it's a fantasy - it's something a bit out of the ordinary and means that these chicks really know how to turn a guy on so they use it. They use it to their advantage as well!
I remember at uni two of my girlfriends would always pash at the bar so that they would get a free drinkcard - everytime it worked (only with a male bar tender).
The thing is I don't think it works the other way around. The thought of two guys pashing in front of me doesn't really do much for me. Even the thought of having a threesome with two of the world's hottest guys doesn't do much for me!
Call me a prude or a party pooper but I would prefer to give all my attention to one other person - that being a male! And quite frankly, if two guys kissed in front of me - sorry, you wouldn't be turning me on at all!
What is it then? Why are guys so turned on by the girl pash? And why doesn't it work the other way around with a guy pash?
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If a guy randomly pashed around he would be considered having an alterior motive, he's drunk and/or slutty. Whereas if a girl did it, there's no answers only questions. Plus the politics aren't represented in girl pashes. There's no dichotomy, no negative/positive, submissive/dominant or explainable motives behind the pash. Plus, it usually doesn't move past the pash/s so can't be seen as some sly way into anothers pants. So yeah, unbelievable and should be #11 in the great mysteries of the world!
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Guys could do it, but I think you'd be too hard pressed to find any hetero guy willing. Gender norms especially regarding guys behaviour is very strict and that kind of thing is mostly intolerable or impermissible.
So I've admitted to backing down from the guy pash despite my girlfriends requests; whose had a guy pash or even a girl pash and under what circumstances?
Honey, you make it sound like you're surprised that someone thought of as "the straightest bloke ever" would find two girls kissing, hot.
Any man that tells you he doesn't find two women making out hot, is a dirty fucking liar. Or he's standing in front of his domineering wife.
The girl-on-girl thing is sensual, regardless of the motives of the two drunk sluts doing it for attention and free drinks. Let's face it, most girls at bars who make out, are doing it so everyone looks at them. Self-confidence issues, anyone? So let's focus for a second on the porn-movie side of it.
Men are, by stereotype, rough, hairy, masculine. Hence (most) are attracted to the soft, smooth, feminine nature of women. That's a primative attraction, but it's undeniable. Seeing two women, of the soft, smooth, feminine variety, engaging in the sensual activity we know as kissing, is massively erotic.
*Ahem*
How deep did I sound then? My longest post without some form of the word "fuck" or "drunk". Brilliant.
Flashes of memories
There is no way that two men pashing infront of me would turn me on nor two women for that matter. IN fact even a guy and girl pashing in public is enough to make anyone sick!
Ash