Is love for everyone?
You know how people say when you meet someone - you know they're the one! You fall head over heels in love! Well what happens if you never find that someone and you never fall in love??? Do we die old spinsters with a million cats in our house as our only companions?
It's something I have been thinking about a lot recently - yes, true I am getting older. It just seems everyone around me is finding love... they're dating, moving in together, getting married even having children. And here's me still doing my thing and waiting for my turn.
I am not bitter about it - I just have been single for a long time and maybe I would like someone in my life. I love being single but there comes a time when you think, hey I would like to buy a house with someone, I would like a dog with them, get married, have kids... but what happens if it never works out like that?
Take my boss for instance... we work in a highly engergetic yet stressful industry... it's fun and it's not hard to get carried away in it and work 24/7. He's nearing 40 and still hasn't found that the lovely lady that makes his heart flutter!!! I am sure many professionals are in the same boat... work consumes their life that they have very little time for love. Then when you do, do we really need to search for it by internet dating or speed dating - who has the energy? And shouldn't love just come easily?
Makes me think that maybe some of us in the world just don't find love - we're destined to work, socialise and be single all our lives. Is that a bad thing? Will we be lonely?
Who knows - I guess it's in the hands of the Universe!
Let me know your thoughts!
Til next time,
DG. X



















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