Bugga me - What's with some blokes?
Gees you blokes really like to keep us gals guessing don't you? Now I've been in the dating game for a little while now and I hope I know a thing or two (otherwise I wouldn't be dishing out dating advice) but I tell you what.... every now and again you blokes surprise me!
Scenario....
Last night I had my first date with a guy that I met at speed dating. We got along really well when we first met, he was fun and gave off this I'm a bit of a 'let's have an adventure' guy!
So on our first date - I picked the place and kept it a surprise and thinking he would like fun, I thought perhaps a bit of bowling which included drinking and then dinner afterwards! Not serious, meant we could talk and it wasn't overly romantic as the number one rule when dating is to have fun and not be focussed on a serious relationship!
Well to my horror - he gasped. Thought it was a crazy idea and couldn't believe I would think of such a thing! What the? Isn't bowling suggesting I'm a fun, easy going, crazy kind of gal?
So I let him decide what we would do - and you never guess what? He took me to the beach to watch the sunset and then he took me back to his place to make me dinner and watch a DVD. Oh my god - vomit!!!
Okay ladies, you're probably thinking how romantic and that I'm very lucky to meet a guy like this! But here's my thinking:
1) The whole thing was so cliche romantic and so predictable right down to him making his moves on me while sitting at the beach
2) The move to his place - blantant attempt to get me into bed! Especially after we had to watch the DVD in his bedroom on his bed although there was a big screen in the lounge room!
3) He has probably already tried this on another gal and it has probably worked!
4) Finally, after all that effort I very much doubt he will keep it up if anything continues or he won't call me again!
Okay time out - you're probably thinking what the hell is wrong with this chick? Bugga me!!!
RIDDLE ME THIS:
- Have women seriously taken the male role and want to come across more casual and fun on first dates than died hard romantics?
- Are men trying to hard to impress or is it just an act and us gals are more clued up these days and can see right through blokes?
- Poll time: should I see him again?
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Nice to see that you're living in the real world!
Or maybe I am wrong and there are true romantics out there? The question is can us modern day gals stomach the romantic advances?
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But I think when you've dated many guys, you start to predict their games and second guess their intentions! Terrible thing but a gal has to protect herself!
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I bet he tells all his buddies about 'his first date magic'.
'Girls are totally into it. Watching the sunset, they're like putty in my hands, man.'
Then they all high-five and say 'yo, I fucked her!' and drink beer.
Guys want the most efficient way into your pants - he doesn't really like you, because otherwise he'd spend his energy trying to get to know you. I say forget it.
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