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Older vs Younger Men: Who is better in the bedroom?


News.com has revealed today that actress Cate Blanchett would rather go to be with a man in his 60s, than to have sex with a toyboy!

She has admitted that she can’t understand why women want to date younger guys when they can have an older man who has more life experience? Probably more experience in bed too!!!

But does this make older men better lovers?

Recently, a friend of mine had a fling with a man 10 years younger than her. At the time she was a little concerned with the age difference in that he may be too immature for her, but once they hit the bedroom her opinion soon changed. According to her, he was the best lover she has ever had – full of energy, spontaneity and wasn’t afraid to experiment. The next day my friend was left sore and quite out of breath – but she still conceives that it was the best sex of her life.


Demi Moore is another example of toyboy success – I don’t see her complaining about her sex life!

Cate Blanchett though may have a point – perhaps because men are older and more mature, they may have squashed for bedroom qualms and be more sexually confident. By the time they hit mid 30s onwards, you would think they would know what turns them on and how they like their sex so they can share it with their lovers.

However, one question remains: can older men really perform to the highest maximum like their younger counterparts?


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1. November 8th 2006 @ 23:48. TonyK Says:
I guess with Viagra these days performance isn't really an issue. In the end I guess it comes down to personal taste, just because a guy is older doesn't mean he is going to be better in bed than a younger guy.

I mean he might have more experience, but he might have been making the same mistakes over and over again in the bedroom
2. November 8th 2006 @ 23:54. Date Gal Says:
Too true TonyK - I think Viagra is a cope out though! Sure it helps but half the men don't even tell you they're using it so they are impressing you under a false illusion.

Perhaps older men too get too tired once they get older and think the ladies should do all the work. They may think they have had their days of being a god in the bedroom and think it's time for the ladies to step up!

That's what I call lazy!
3. November 8th 2006 @ 23:59. TonyK Says:
Yeah I agree. I guess some guys have no choice though...when age catches up with them.

With regards to your last part of your comment, think its the responsibility of the man just as much if not more than the woman to make sure one another are satisfied in the edroom
4. November 9th 2006 @ 00:10. Date Gal Says:
Thanks Tony K - great comments! It's a two way street when it comes to HOT lovin!
5. November 9th 2006 @ 04:58. KylieW Says:
Unfortunately age doesn't guarantee that a guy (or girl) has any idea of what they're doing in the bedroom. A younger guy may not have the experience, but he's probably got the enthusiasm....and just needs an older woman to show him how to harness that energy.lol.

Actually, a number of my girl-friends have dated or are dating younger men. One of my closest friends is married to a guy almost 8 years younger than her.

I don't think I could sleep with someone a lot older than me......well unless he's REALLY rich.....or is Pierce Brosnan or Harrison Ford.....then I could probably get past the ick factor. LOL.

6. November 9th 2006 @ 04:58. KylieW Says:
Unfortunately age doesn't guarantee that a guy (or girl) has any idea of what they're doing in the bedroom. A younger guy may not have the experience, but he's probably got the enthusiasm....and just needs an older woman to show him how to harness that energy.lol.

Actually, a number of my girl-friends have dated or are dating younger men. One of my closest friends is married to a guy almost 8 years younger than her.

I don't think I could sleep with someone a lot older than me......well unless he's REALLY rich.....or is Pierce Brosnan or Harrison Ford.....then I could probably get past the ick factor. LOL.

7. November 9th 2006 @ 05:00. KylieW Says:
Oops, sorry.....not quite sure how I managed to do that twice!
8. November 9th 2006 @ 05:08. TonyK Says:
Haha, so I take it James Bond and Indiana Jones don't do it for you Kyle,lol.
9. November 9th 2006 @ 05:11. TonyK Says:
Oops, I mean Kylie.
10. November 9th 2006 @ 05:18. KylieW Says:
Back in his Indiana Jones day's, Harrison did it for me.....but actually, even for Harrison Ford, I don't think I could sleep with a guy in his 60's (that's like 10 years older than my dad....ugggh!)
11. November 9th 2006 @ 05:23. TonyK Says:
Good point..Obviously Calista Flockhart sees something in him...dunno what he sees in her though, girl needs to put on some weight
12. November 9th 2006 @ 05:31. KylieW Says:
Even in his 60's he's hotter than Calista.....I've never seen her appeal.

So, you'd be happy to be Linda Evangelista's toyboy eh?
13. November 9th 2006 @ 05:36. TonyK Says:
Yeah I wouldnt say no,lol..Shes not the typical model, shes got curves so yeah why not, not that it will ever happen, can only dream
14. November 9th 2006 @ 05:44. KylieW Says:
it's important for a boy to have a dream. It's unlikely Dave Grohl is going to dump his wife and decide he's in love with me....but I can hope! : )
15. November 9th 2006 @ 05:49. TonyK Says:
Awww, you never know. He might come to his senses and realise your more attractive, didnt even realise he was married
16. November 9th 2006 @ 06:04. KylieW Says:
Yep, he married a tiny little blonde thing (like they all do...*sigh*, lol).

Interestingly, I think he's about 10 years older than her. So she went the older man route.
17. November 9th 2006 @ 06:11. TonyK Says:
Oh,ok.Older men seem to be the flavour of the month. Leaving us young ones with nothing,lol
18. November 9th 2006 @ 06:17. KylieW Says:
Na, as I said previously, I think the tide is turning to you younger boys. Lots of my friends have been going the younger men.
As long as you don't mind an older woman of course!
19. November 9th 2006 @ 06:34. TonyK Says:
I dont mind at all, older women to use a generlisation are more confident and know what they want, are more experienced and self-assured, not saying that younger woman aren't as well...but is definitely an attractive quality
20. November 9th 2006 @ 13:14. Questionable Content Says:
I know you probably want opinions on older/younger [n]men[/b], but I'll put my insight in about the fairer sex.

I have some strange magnetism with women who are substantially older than me (from 6 to 16 years my senior), and have had a fair bit of experience with them over the last year or two.

I agree with TonyK - they certainly do know what they want, how to get it, and what they like in the bedroom (and various other household locations). While I'll avoid being too graphic (for once) I will say that in my experience, older women are more open to trying new things and are more adventurous.

There's also the point that I find older women are far less shallow (in terms of looks) than girls my own age - I'm not a bad sort but older women seem to look past that and see personality as well. Yeah yeah, generalisations ahoy.

21. November 9th 2006 @ 14:43. Always Eighteen Says:
Yes, I heard younger men were the way to go! Particularly 18 year old males! Spread the word!
22. November 9th 2006 @ 22:35. Bryn Says:
Young guys come to soon.
Older men can't get it up as easy.
Young girls squirm about too much.
Mature ladies use too much perfume.
23. November 10th 2006 @ 04:19. Cibbuano Says:
Even young guys are taking Viagra... I had a friend admit it to me, with all the pressure on guys to be stallions in the bedroom.

Personally, I don't think it matters whether the guy is old or young, just as long as he is Cibby.

That's me, self-congratulating myself over the anonymity of the internet. The reality, though, might be far more disappointing...


24. November 10th 2006 @ 04:22. Date Gal Says:
Thanks Guys - some reall great feedback from you guys!

TonyK & Kylie W - I've said it before and I'll say it again, you guys should hook up! It's a bit like a private chat room with you too - ha ha just kidding! I enjoy your banter!

Questionable - you are like most males! They love older women and love the fact they are so confident in bed. By the time they hit 30, they have lost all their body qualms and know what they want! Plus, they're in the middle of their sexual peak so sex is a plenty!

Always Eighteen - Ha ha 18 year old males are having a peak at that stage of their lives so if you want am energetic god in the bedroom - you know who to go after!

Bryn - Hmmm.... you seem hard to please!!! What sort of person would satisfy you in bed?

Young guys come too soon - but know how to have hot sex
Older men can't get it up as easily - but they have Viagra for that
Young Girls squirm anout too much - but at least you're still getting your rocks off
Mature ladies use too much perfume - have a bit of foreplay in the shower... that will solve the problem!

DG
25. November 10th 2006 @ 04:29. TonyK Says:
Haha, DateGal: Think I might be a bit too young for Kylie,lol.
26. November 10th 2006 @ 04:36. Bryn Says:
I was being just a tad facetious ... lol
27. November 10th 2006 @ 04:58. KylieW Says:
Oh rub it in that I'm old Tony!! Thanks!

Actually Cibby is right about young guys using Viagra. A friend of mine went to the doctor and got some. He didn't need it, he just wanted to see what it was like.

Weird!
28. November 10th 2006 @ 05:02. TonyK Says:
You know I didnt mean it like that,lol
29. November 10th 2006 @ 05:05. Date Gal Says:
Hey Cibby - yes you are correct! Young boys are using Viagra to get that extra lift or some they are resorting to ecstacy to get their rocks off! Quite sad!
30. November 10th 2006 @ 10:39. Questionable Content Says:
Kylie.

Send some of your friends to Brisbane. ASAP.

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