Date GalSex or Sleep?
If you have seen ‘Sex and the City: The Movie’ there was a classic scene where Miranda and Steve were having some adventures in the boudoir when half way through, Miranda was happy for it to hurry up and finish!!! God forbid. As awful as it sounds though, I think most women have been in the same situation.
I love my sleep and sometimes I am so tired that I have wished the deed was over and done with… I would never say it to the guy but oh have I thought it. I do relate to Miranda though. As busy, professional, working women who have hectic sporting and social calendars (and some women have the added joys of children), sometimes you just don’t have the time nor the energy for sex. To be a successful domestic goddess and a loving wife or partner you do need to put out sometimes, and although we all try our best to get into it sometimes, when it’s all one way, oh we pray that the men do their business and we can all get some shut eye – now I know why so many chicks fake it! Just kidding!
I was chatting to my friend Raquel about this subject and she confessed only once has a man satisfied her so much she wish it went all night. On all the other occasions, she’s faked it because it was doing nothing for her and she was over the whole workout! She told me another technique to finish the act but probably isn’t appropriate enough for this blog (but check out EP 2 of Channel 9’s ‘Diary of a London Call Girl’ and you’ll get the idea!
It makes me wonder though – are we all so busy these days that sex isn’t even on our list of priorities? Is it more that we would rather have drinks with our friends, or go to that extra spin class a week, or work ridiculous hours than enjoy the pleasures of the bedroom? I guess there are so many options to keep us entertained these days that sex is just not one of them! I may be wrong – what do you think?
Til next time my dating friends,
DG. x
