Date GalOh Hail The Purple Patch
Being the big flirt that I am, I text back… to all 5 blokes! Eek – my bad? I reached over to my girlfriends and questioned ‘Is playing 5 guys at the one time… a bad thing?’ After a few raised eyebrows and gasps my friend Rachel exclaimed ‘Hell no darling… you’re just having a purple patch!’
A purple patch? A new term which is very new to me but apparently very common in the dating world. It’s a period of time in which is opposite to a drought- it’s raining men girlfriends and there’s nothing wrong with that!!!
Funny thing was – when I wasn’t even remotely interested in men, a lot of men started to become interested in me!!! Why? Maybe because I wasn’t giving off that desperate vibe! Before I knew it, I had 7 guys going at the same time – not intimate with any of them, more companions who I would go out to dinner or the movies with!
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Although some may look down at the purple patch in that it could all end in tears and someone getting hurt – I say what’s the harm? It’s not only great for your self confidence but you get to spend time with a variety of different and fun people!
RIDDLE ME THIS: IS THE 'PURPLE PATCH' A GOOD THING OR COULD IT BE A DATING TREND THAT ENDS IN TEARS?
Hunt Famous
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Of course, one would not partake in a booty call let alone 5.
Is this something you would consider appropriate? Even one booty call?
Hunt Famous
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But do you think booty calls are acceptable? It would be considered that blokes drink, get the confidence up and then text someone they fancy in exceptation to hook up for sex? Surely you have or someone you know has done this?
Hunt Famous
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Personally, I wouldn't be into it. Guys do it all the time - mostly, when they've rejected or they think they've got no other opportunities. The booty call is the last gas station before the desert, in a way.
All the girls that I've known to do this have had ulterior motives. Most of them were expecting it to turn into something more, or were doing it as a revenge against a past lover.
But don't think women partake in a booty call because they have an ulterior motive - they too may simply just want sex. Maybe they don't want a relationship - just plain fun!
We do can date like men!