Etiquette of the Perve
Everyone loves a good perve! Including chicks - why do you think I just forked out a few too many dollars for dark sunglasses???
It's always nice when we see a bit of eye candy and you're only human for having a look. But when it comes to THE PERVE, there a few things to keep in mind in what we call 'etiquette.'
1) Don't make it really obvious when you're checking someone out. Either wear sunglasses or have a quick glance. Holding a gaze for too long is really sleazy and may make the other person feel repulsed
2) If you're on a date or with your partner and see a bit of eye candy coming your way - don't make it obvious in front of them that you're checking someone else out. Okay so it's all good to look and not touch but when you're on a date, it makes the other person feel like complete crap!
3) When someone is having a perve at you, you spot it and it's not welcomed -don't do any actions that make you out that you are repulsed at their actions. It's a good ego boost and you should feel flattered. Yes sometimes it feels great when a hot chick or bloke checks you out but when you're not attracted to the person don't screw up your nose and say something out loud - they find your attractive, nothing wrong with that!
4) If you don't want to come across as a complete sleazebag - then don't follow through with the perve. Don't wolf whistle, yell out sleazy lines, follow them closely or stand around laughing and pointing with your friends. Completely rude. Have your look, get your kicks and then move on for the day.
5) If you're in a appropriate environment (i.e. a bar) and you spot someone who takes your fancy - then not just look but approach them and say hello. There's nothing worse than soemone just staring at you the whole time and not approach you. If you get eye contact back - that's your best bet that you should maybe say hello!
I love the perve but there are times and places! And remember to make it subtle!
Heck we all love a bit of eye candy!
It's always nice when we see a bit of eye candy and you're only human for having a look. But when it comes to THE PERVE, there a few things to keep in mind in what we call 'etiquette.'
1) Don't make it really obvious when you're checking someone out. Either wear sunglasses or have a quick glance. Holding a gaze for too long is really sleazy and may make the other person feel repulsed
2) If you're on a date or with your partner and see a bit of eye candy coming your way - don't make it obvious in front of them that you're checking someone else out. Okay so it's all good to look and not touch but when you're on a date, it makes the other person feel like complete crap!
3) When someone is having a perve at you, you spot it and it's not welcomed -don't do any actions that make you out that you are repulsed at their actions. It's a good ego boost and you should feel flattered. Yes sometimes it feels great when a hot chick or bloke checks you out but when you're not attracted to the person don't screw up your nose and say something out loud - they find your attractive, nothing wrong with that!
4) If you don't want to come across as a complete sleazebag - then don't follow through with the perve. Don't wolf whistle, yell out sleazy lines, follow them closely or stand around laughing and pointing with your friends. Completely rude. Have your look, get your kicks and then move on for the day.
5) If you're in a appropriate environment (i.e. a bar) and you spot someone who takes your fancy - then not just look but approach them and say hello. There's nothing worse than soemone just staring at you the whole time and not approach you. If you get eye contact back - that's your best bet that you should maybe say hello!
I love the perve but there are times and places! And remember to make it subtle!
Heck we all love a bit of eye candy!
